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I was younger, I was a very timid child. I was afraid of many things around me, particularly being harmed by people. I was afraid of ‘gangster-looking’ people, I was afraid of people who looked like ‘perverts’ and would ‘touch’ me or my family members. Soon after, I overcame these fears as I grew up, but these beliefs that 18 Years of The Lord Of The Rings thank you for the memories shirt are scary and some categories of people might harm you came to haunt me. As I came into my, I wondered if kids would fear me as the ‘pervert’ as I was now the ‘adult’.
I ended up being extremely conscious of my behavior around kids and especially girls. It has been really disruptive to my life as sometimes I don’t even dare to talk to girls of my age for the 18 Years of The Lord Of The Rings thank you for the memories shirt of behaving weirdly or being taken as a pervert. I used to be the obedient well-behaved kid who gets best conduct awards and stuff for being helpful etc (just for some context). For the past few years, I feel very paralyzed and am very self-conscious of my behavior. Should I be actively trying to change these beliefs and thinking patterns or should I just go with the flow and let things develop themselves?