That’s how I grow up, with no comfort or cuddle or any feedback from parents, sometimes if there was one, it was negative, whenever I made mistake, their first reaction was scolding, so I struggled to get their attention and approve. In their eyes I should never be stuck in any trouble to bother them, in so many times I thought it would be better not to become a human being. How to know yourself? I am sorry but no matter how hard you try, you will never truly understand your nature. Just stop trying and live your life. Don’t create unnecessary problems.
Baby Goku No Coffee No Workee Shirt, ladies tee, tank top, hoodie and sweater
The constant alarm ringing in my head was this generation of mothers with their heads in the phone nodding in agreement while behind them their kids are burning down the house. the video is saying that if we don’t have someone outside of ourselves that accurately and fairly assesses us a person and projects back to us an honest view of who others see us to be and also a person who validates us for our goodness and worthiness of trust and love.
we are left with a skewed, inaccurate, immature sense of self; riddled with insecure attachment and low self-esteem and especially direction in our life. When this happens I think we are simply lost and miss out on so much time in our lives that we could have been really living & thriving. I speak for myself. I’m working on all this. Thank you school of life for reading me for my emotions today. I needed that.