if only it was as simple as saying ‘time out’. arguments tend to happen because one or the other has failed to listen or over sensitively taken something petty the wrong way and simply (and immaturely) will not back down on the matter. What if the I’m not Arguing I’m explaining why I’m right Chicken shirt continues to yell each time you attempt to discuss and you continue to be triggered every time and call a time out every time.
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One could be in this situation and never make progress because you just can’t tolerate being yelled at and every discussion just stalls prematurely. Further, the partner claims you are not allowed to feel triggered because your partner believes they weren’t raising their voice at all.I’ve tried this in the I’m not Arguing I’m explaining why I’m right Chicken shirt before over a minor issue. Said I needed a few hours to chill as I was getting too upset and the conversation was going nowhere. All this ended up with was pounding on doors and a bunch of yelling (from the other side) advocating a continuation of the fight.
During a major issue where I asked until morning, I had the cops called on me. Even the I’m not Arguing I’m explaining why I’m right Chicken shirt calling side later admitted this was overkill. This will only work on people who have the same type of mentality that you have. I’ve done it successfully before with friends, but I rarely argue with those friends in the first place. Shoot tell that dishwasher to shut her trap and make a sandwich instead of setting down reading she put that effort to work instead of finger pointing her problems would seem so big