Sometimes I feel that I need to refrain from thinking that I don’t have the responsibility to please others, but every time I met someone new, I tend to want to please them. Being a ‘people pleaser’ of course had its perks and downside. But when I feel down or not in the Milwaukee Brewers Christmas Spirit shirt , sucking up to the tendency is very psychologically tiring. And when I knew it’s bad to give up my own will or opinion to please others, it just happened automatically. And a lot of times, that came with regrets. With much experience socializing, I became more open to those who are able to get deeper in understanding my character. But still, getting rid or even toning down the habit is really hard.
Milwaukee Brewers Christmas Spirit shirt, hoodie, tank top and sweater
shall we cheer then hahaha! but yeah, I somehow feel that some people would judge me as a fake. And create this preventional gap, like, no, you’re not the kind of people I would like to befriend with. I usually could comprehend those kinds of signals and tried my best to understand where they Milwaukee Brewers Christmas Spirit shirt from, but It’s still painful. Well, I keep reminding myself that we have to accept the fact that no matter how nice we are to people, we can’t please anyone, and some would dislike us unconditionally,
Same here, it took me years to really grow to where I’m able to slow things down enough and speak my mind rather then automatically agree with whatever the Milwaukee Brewers Christmas Spirit shirt is doing or saying to avoid the anxiety of embarrassing myself or pissing them off and not being able to handle it. It’s so freeing to be able to be more authentic and speak to your feelings and realize that even if they don’t agree, it doesn’t mean they’re going to hate you, dismiss you, walk away, stop being your friend, whatever. I was just always scared to loose anyone and now realize that not everyone is worth keeping around.