i totally understand. I finally let go of my avoidant for good. Its been 4 weeks since i told him never to contact me again. After watching this video everything made so much sense. Its still hard im not going to lie there are moments i want to text him. But then Pink Floyd we’re just two lost souls swimming in a fishbowl shirt kicks in and i know i will never have a satisfying normal relationship with him. It will never work between us because hes an avoidant and im anxious and if i stay in this situationship with him i will never be happy and feel loved and cared for.
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I’ve been the guy in that situation. The trip might have revealed cracks in the Pink Floyd we’re just two lost souls swimming in a fishbowl shirt that would become serious problems later on, not just for him but for you also. Don’t blame yourself. Sometimes he leaves out of mercy so you’ll have more years in a happier relationship with someone else, rather than stay for years at which point instead of a sad departure after one year, you’ve got a messy and devastating split
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I’m dating an avoidant as well and it really is hard on me. Especially when I’ve already been through this type of Pink Floyd we’re just two lost souls swimming in a fishbowl shirt before. I honestly don’t even know if we’re even dating anymore due to how seldom she contacts me anymore. She makes me feel like she hates me and then I feel insecure about myself. Like my love doesn’t matter. Like how I feel doesn’t matter. Like I don’t matter.