I used to think my friends were boring people when I was in school because they weren’t popular and hung out with ME. Looking back now, I realize my friends were the You smell like drama and a headache please get away from me shirt and kindest people and the popular kids were shallow and talked about each other behind their backs. I feel so guilty now. I see so many of these videos and articles, but none of them seem to help with “loving yourself” other than to say to work out or get hobbies or some such shit. A big reason I hate myself is that I’m 27 and still live with my father because I can’t seem to find a good job. I’ve come up with a theory after I’ve done my research.
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And that is, because we were raised more or less to do that. I remember ‘chasing’ my mother to have a deep connection with her while she ignored me most of the You smell like drama and a headache please get away from me shirt and yell and being angry. I believe people chase emotionally unavailable people that don’t want them back, only so they can fix others, so they can help, so they can finally least this time.
And yes, it’s because there is a You smell like drama and a headache please get away from me shirt of self-love and self-respect that doesn’t let one have boundaries and respect them after they’ve eventually been established.some think that people who don’t love themselves can’t be fully empathetic and affectionate toward a relationship partner. I enjoy expressing and receiving love in a romantic aspect that can exist seperate from my self-aversion