I feel that the main problem is confusion not the state of being amicable. “Niceness” not only has various meanings depending on the Witch Girl driving Jeep Trick or Jeep halloween shirt , but breathes an air of mediocrity. It may have meant something concrete at one point in history, but no longer does. Perhaps we should not confuse niceness with charity, manners, and other attractive virtues.
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Those of us (me included) who allow other to take advantage, only do so because we gain something. Either we seek respect or love, we enjoy being miserable (counter-intuitive, I know) or imagine that we will be owed something in the near or distant future. Obviously this is not the Witch Girl driving Jeep Trick or Jeep halloween shirt , especially if you have taken advantage of a nice person before.I think another way of seeing it is that people could potentially feel uncomfortable displaying kindness or niceness because of fear of intimacy and of people’s expectations.
A fear of intimacy isn’t all that uncommon, which I think really stems from a fear of rejection. Now, if you have a Witch Girl driving Jeep Trick or Jeep halloween shirt sense of self, an “I will let people down” attitude doesn’t seem to be all that uncommon, so I think insecure people might avoid being nice and instead take on a roll of arrogance in order to not feel like they’re “fooling” anyone. In a way they’re trying to let people down instantly instead of dragging it out and turning it into a long, painful process. That way they also get rid of any pressure they might feel as a result of people’s expectations of them.